How to Skip the Kid's Menu: 6 Tips Every Parent Should Know
Eating out isn't what it used to be, you know, before parenthood, especially when your kids are likely to eat chicken fingers. . . again. Or maybe worse, demand a full-sized meal that costs upwards of $20 only to take two bites. If you're lucky and have more than one child, perhaps you get to deal with both — and other variations — of these scenarios. Not fun.
That said, we're still big believers in taking kids out to restaurants. Dining out gives us the chance to teach our kids how to act in restaurants, exposes them to the inherently social nature of breaking bread, and if you play your cards right, can be an opportunity for them to try new foods — you know, the ones off of the kids menu — in a fun, relaxed atmosphere. And it doesn't even have to cost a fortune.
With a long weekend coming up, back-to-school madness stretching us thin, and the holidays coming up faster than we think, we're getting ready to eat out with our kids more frequently without stretching our budgets. Today, our friends at Cool Mom Eats, a food and lifestyle site on the web for parents, are here to bring you these 6 tips for how to feed your kids off of a regular menu without breaking the bank. So sit back, eat, and enjoy not having to do dishes.
Eating Out With Kids
1. Make a meal of appetizers and/or sides.
Appetizers and kid menu items are similarly sized, but you're much more likely to find interesting and healthful foods on the apps and sides sections of the menu. One or two can easily make a meal for kids as old as 10-years-old.
Magnolia in Los Angeles serves up this Spinach and Artichoke Dip, which may not be the healthiest portion of veggies ever, but is the perfect way to get my younger son, a spinach refusnik, to give the green veggie a try. And, hey, that's worth the price of dining out.
Photo provided by Magnolia.
The Beef and Pork Meatballs appetizer at ROOT in Philly make a great main entree for little ones that has all the flavor that grown ups expect in a kid-friendly classic. It's a perfect choice across the board: fresh, perfectly portioned, familiar, but not pandering.
Photo provided by ROOT.
2. Split meals with kids.
Restaurant portions tend to run big — even for grownups — and the easiest way to skip the kid's menu is to share an entree with your little one. If half of an adult entree isn't enough for you, consider getting two entrees between 2 adults and 1 kid.
There are a couple of ways to approach deciding on an order when you split an entree with your kid. One is to get a delicious, grown-up variation of something that your kid already eats, like this Lobster Mac and Cheese at Mussel Bar and Grill in Arlington, VA. Yum!
Photo provided by Mussel Bar & Grille.
Or try something that ultimately plates as a simple meal, but exposes your kid to some new aspect of a food they already like. For example, if your child is fine eating plain fish fillets, you can share a whole fish like this one at Row 34 in Boston. Let her take a close look, poke it, check out the spine once you pull it out, and generally engage their curiosity. Then, flake plain white fish meat onto her plate for a simple meal just the way she likes it.
Photo provided by Row 34.
3. Find out if half portions are possible.
Speaking of splitting meals, feel free to ask the restaurant if half portion entrees are available. Be prepared to hear no — this may not be available — but it doesn't hurt to ask. In fact, you might be surprised at how helpful restaurants will be to families who are trying to feed their kids well. They may even offer another off-the-menu solution. Fingers crossed.
4. Dine at ethnic restaurants.
If you're dead set on avoiding a kid's menu packed with buttered pasta and burgers, consider visiting an ethnic restaurant instead. They're less likely to offer kid menu staples and you set a tone of adventure before dinner even starts. In fact, you can turn dining out into a game: Decide that everyone will try at least one new thing, including you.
As for ordering, scan the menu for ethnic dishes that build on more familiar ingredients. If your child loves pasta, for example, give him something like this ramen at Little Donkey in Boston.
Photo provided by Little Donkey.
Or if your kid is already a fan of Chinese dumplings or Gyoza, similar Japanese-style dumplings, make a meal of veggie-packed Samosas like these at Pub Royale in Chicago. I can tell you that my 6-year-old has made many meals out of samosas topped with cilantro chutney (the flavor of which reminds him of more familiar Mexican food) and rice.
Photo provided by Pub Royale.
5. Don't be afraid to ask for what you want.
Though we're loath to be a bother at restaurants, it is okay to ask for what you want, as long as you do so respectfully and work with the answer you're given. If mac and cheese is on the kids menu, ask if it's possible to have pasta with peas and Parmesan instead (they're all staples at most restaurant kitchens). If there is an adult salad that comes with avocado, ask if it's possible to have a side of plain sliced avocado for your little one. If your child will eat anything with grated Parmesan on top, then ask for some to make whatever healthy option you choose even more appealing.
Keep in mind that it's not always about getting your child to be more adventurous, as much as making sure that you can get them delicious, healthy options that go beyond pizza and hot dogs without spending a million bucks on food that will go to waste. No restaurant will fault you for attempting that.
6. Ask for veggies on the side.
Most restaurants have plenty of vegetables that they serve as sides. While you can ask for veggies no matter what your child's order — from steamed broccoli to raw carrot sticks — it's an especially helpful thing to do if you're having a hard time finding a healthy option using one of the tips above. Get the veggies first so that it's the best option on the table while kids are hungry. Otherwise, you know what happens when the bread arrives.
Photo provided by Zahav.
This very Fried Cauliflower at Zahav in Philly has helped me make sure that my kids get a dose of veggies and not just bread and hummus. (Though, man, I could live on just their bread and hummus alone — but that's another story!) My older son is iffy about cauliflower, but fried like this? Sold!
Photo provided by Zahav. Photo by Jason Varney.
Who wouldn't eat every single kernel of this mouthwatering corn on the cob at Mana Food Bar in Chicago? Proof that your kids can survive (enjoy, even!) dinner at vegetarian restaurant.
Photo provided by Mana Food Bar in Chicago.
See? You can take them anywhere!
Contributed by Stacie Billis, Managing Editor of Cool Mom Eats
Cool Mom Eats offers tons of great recipes, cooking tips,school lunch and dinner ideas, party inspiration, shopping finds, and everything else you need to help make your life as the family cook simpler and more delicious too. And, yeah, take out counts.